The possibility that her husband can cheat on her is every woman's nightmare. If women who have been emotionally and psychologically damaged by infidelity should be asked of their one regret, they would have wished that the pointers were there, and that they were able to identify the signs of a cheating husband while the affair was new so as to sufficiently guard and prepare themselves against the worst. Taking bearing from their nemesis, you as a wife who's suspecting of her husband of cheating should be guided by these ten signs of a cheating husband below:
1. His Communication with You Has Gone South
This sign shouldn't bother you if your husband is one who is not given to extensive communication right from time. But if your once sharing and chatty husband has suddenly become wary of the amount of information he discloses to you, you better suspect that he's cheating if you've ruled out other likely factors that could warrant such an odd behavior such as work stress or sickness.
2. He Brings His Cell Phone Anywhere He Goes
Again, don't get worked up if this is your spouse's way of life right from the start. Otherwise, there is an affair going on between him and a strange person if he has recently become addicted to taking his phone with him anywhere he goes. The reason he has grown quite protective of his phone could be to keep you from stumbling upon the identity of his cheating partner or the lewd messages they've been exchanging. Whether it is out of his fear of you or for the perverted fun of it, a husband that is suddenly protective of his phone won't be too far away from a cheating lifestyle.
3. He Deletes His Call History
If his ways are straightforward, your husband won't have any reason to wipe off his call history from his phone. So if he does that, it should fuel your suspicion that he is involved in a wrongdoing which he doesn't want to disclose to you. Possibly, this recent development must have spurred you to think "My husband is always on his phone talking with some person but there's no indication that it ever happened on his call log."
4. He Has Become Very Self-Conscious and Spend a Lot of Time on His Looks
A husband who never paid much attention to his dressing style and body weight in the past is a potential cheat if his looks have become all that matters to him all of a sudden. In fact, everything about this change ought to be questioned, if for example, it hadn't been an issue on how thin or fat he was, or how he would rather attend meetings donned on clothes bought from yard sales than on designer's suits. Clearly, there is someone that is motivating him to look special. Of course, that person can't be you, by the longest shot.
5. He Smells of a Particular Body Scent
A cheating husband almost always leaves trails of his cheating ways. Popular among these infamous leaks is the fragrance from his contact with his cheating partner. But perfume sprays and colognes are not all there is to expose a cheater. Any man who has had quick sex with someone usually smells like it. So, if you are acquainted with your husband's body odor before and after a sexual encounter, you would be able to tell that he has cheated on you.
6. He Has Changed the Passcode of His Phone
Maybe, he banned you from accessing his phone without your consent. And while you are still taking it with a pinch of salt, you noticed that his phone has been guarded with an unknown passcode. Indeed, it isn't uncommon for cheating husbands to keep their phones locked to unauthorized searching, especially from their wives. Therefore, if this sign has become the latest you've observed, know that it isn't far from being one of the signs of a cheating husband who owns a cell phone.
7. Something Strange Is Going On With His Finances
Usually, a cheating husband would conceal his financial transactions from his wife. Also, if you aren't your husband's account manager or credit card holder, it will be challenging to keep track of his spendings. However, when he has begun to complain of not having enough money on him and it's obvious that lately, he hasn't been involved in any capital-intensive project, you might do well to request for his financial statement of account to be sure you haven't been a fool all these while.
8. He Accuses You of Infidelity
Who knows the size of the batter but the baker? Likewise, an unfaithful husband is acquainted with the ins and outs of cheating. A word of advice: don't be thrown into a fit of confusion if your dear husband levels unfounded accusations of cheating on you The reason is this: he's battling with his guilty conscience. Also, he has been long involved in having affairs outside his matrimonial home to understand how it feels to be a cheater. Therefore, do yourself the favor of being at peace with yourself and try to monitor his routine activities to confirm or discard your suspicions of cheating.
9. He Has Little Interest in Your Sex Life
The climax of extramarital affairs that are meant to happen is having sex. If your husband is regularly sleeping with someone outside, it is fair to assume that that is the reason why he is not interested in making love with you. Moreover, a man who is deeply involved with someone other than you will feel that it is cheating on his forbidden love if he keeps on having sex with you.
10. He Spends More Time Outside Than Necessary
Have you noticed that he has made it habitual to stay out late when he should be home? Has his one hour gym time stepped up to three hours with no substantial explanation from him? Then, it is wise you don't take that observation for granted; your husband could be cheating on you.
In conclusion, if you have observed more than two of the above signs in your husband's lifestyle, that should quicken you into action. First, ask him questions based on the changes and hear what he has to say. If they aren't convinced enough, still hang on until your fears are confirmed. In all, stay true to yourself and be happy. No human being's excesses is worth your peace of mind.