Marriage is the union of a man and his wife who will stay all mushed up in love forever. It is the dream of every lovestruck woman to remain in love with her darling husband, with no room for ills and doubts. But that is only possible in a perfect world. As much as we have known and seen, we don't live in a perfect world. Moreover, it is possible that you have, countless times, confided in yourself, "My husband doesn't love me anymore!" However, as real as this scenario appears, you could be proven wrong by recognizing some regular, yet subtle signs which show that your hubby is still in love with you. Let's show you below:
1. He accommodates your flaws with little or no complaints
Believe it or not, you aren't a saint. In fact, it is most likely you are now a walking sample of flawed imperfection which wasn't the case when he was courting you. Be that as it may, a man who still loves you is fully in the know of the downsizing of your perfections, but has chosen instead to focus on the beauty of your soul. Rather than nag you endlessly about your growing impatience, he commends your efforts in encouraging change in him. Needless to say, no relationship is without faults, and he understands that perfectly.
2. He checks up on you regularly
A busy life should not interfere with a relationship when a man has committed to loving you for life. Even if he's hustling for money, you should remain his top priority. For that, he will make an effort to call or text you during the day, or in the night as the case may be when he's away from home. After confirming that you are fine, he may not always end the call with an, "I love you" or send you heart emojis all the time. But the lovely gesture of checking on you almost on a daily basis is a sign that you're still his loving wife.
3. Your bedroom maintains its sexy status
Love in marriage can be sweetly expressed through sex. Your husband loves you if he is committed to exploring your body and his with you. He makes it his responsibility to be on the lookout for your pleasure in bed and doesn't deny you of sexual adventures anywhere in the house.
4. He is sensitive enough to permanently take note of your turn-ons and pet peeves
Hello human! You aren't in denial of your likes, and they didn't escape the notice of your doting husband. While most men would choose to develop a complete loss of memory on what your biggest pet peeve is, your husband shows that he loves you by remembering how scathing your anger would be if he ever forgets. He cares, that is why you can tell how sensitive he is toward keeping your happy.
5. He still finds you attractive
By this, don't expect him to have his eyes fixed on you every time you walk past him, even if you are dressed to kill. Instead, pay attention to the way he snuggles up to you when you are worn out and disheveled, or how he compliments your naked form full of stretch marks and flabby fats. Remember, love isn't skin deep; he fell in love with what makes you.
6. He hates to dwell on arguments with you
The coming together of two people from different family and social backgrounds and who have different perspectives of life and issues is a guarantee for arguments. Truth is, there is no marital relationship devoid of the back and forth trading of words. However, your man holds you in high esteem when he is quick to bring any argument between both of you to an end. It isn't because he is tired of stating his stand on a matter; he is more interested in saving your relationship from catastrophe. So, while you are smarting up for deadly points to weaken him in an argument, he already has plans to deflate your ripe ego.
7. He doesn't get tired of buying you thoughtful gifts
Giving is ingrained in loving. That your husband doesn't love you, isn't a thought to entertain if he makes it a habit to present you with gifts and not only on the days that are "special". What's more, he is breathtakingly precise in his choice of gifts for you. Even if he doesn't always spend tons of cash on luxury items, his thoughtful heart and hands are definitely worth gracious appreciation from you.
8. He is proud of you, anywhere
It isn't difficult for a man to keep his distance from you if he feels that you are below or above him. Also, he wouldn't stress himself in defending your honor within the circle of his friends if he doesn't value you. So, trust us when we tell you that your husband loves you if he holds his head high when he shows you off as his wife in public places. He loves you if he interprets it as demeaning to sit still while his friends spill nonsense about you. Whether you are more successful than he is, or you aren't in the class of his powerful colleagues, he doesn't fail to acknowledge that you are special to him, and to whoever cares to listen.
9. He helps you in taking care of house chores
It gets overwhelming sometimes, to tackle all the house chores alone. That is where a caring husband steps in. He doesn't need to be told to offer his help in relieving you of the workload, and definitely doesn't hesitate to help out when asked. Although he may not find the jobs interesting to do, he doesn't mind getting his hands working just to make you happy and rested. From washing the dishes to changing diapers, a loving husband will assist you in doing chores, punctually and regularly.
10. He is interested and actively involved in your success
A man who is contented within himself is a worthy motivator. He doesn't feel challenged by your achievements. More so, he doesn't make it a secret that he will be there for you, all time. That is love. And not just love, but one that is selfless, winsome, affectionate, and healthy.
11. He gets uncomfortable with your discomfort
Your husband still has a soft spot for you if he doesn't sleep whenever you are awake and restless. He automatically gets sad anytime you're having a bad day and does everything he can to lift you out of your sour mood.
12. He respects your family
Your weird parents aren't banned yet from coming to your house, because your husband values them as your blood. He talks about your siblings with a hint of admiration and isn't quick to put them down in your presence. He ensures that your kids regard your family as a part and parcel of their lives, while not forgetting that he's blessed to marry into it.
The way men express their love is significantly different than that of many women. That said, it is easy to entertain the thoughts that your husband has fallen out of love, years after getting married to you. It doesn't matter how long you have been torn between believing and doubting that he still loves you; the signs above are great guides for you. If your husband exhibits most or all of these signs, then you can relax and bask in the quiet bliss of your marriage.