Most men who are in love do much of their communication through actions. Such guys may not come out and declare their love for you, but his behavior around you cannot hide his feelings. No one wants to be locked out, hence the need to be aware of the signs of a guy who fancies you before you make your move. You need to understand how guys portray their attraction to a girl. Here are some of the signs he is attracted to you that you can look out for.
Am I Reading His Mood Correctly?
A guy's actions always sell him out. If you see him warming up or cozying up to you, it is a positive indication he has fallen for you, although he has not revealed it to you.
1. He secretly looks at you
He will always steal glances at you when you are not looking. Guys are very poor at hiding it, and he will shy off when you catch him. However, it will not deter him, and he will keep doing it. If you ask him, he will keep stuttering when defending himself for doing it.
2. He blushes if you talk to him
Blushing is one of the subtle signs he is secretly attracted to you. When a guy is attracted to a girl, his heart rate increases when talking to her, his blood pressure rises, and he will blush. If you notice him blushing whenever you are talking to him, it is a strong indication he fancies you.
3. He tries to make you laugh
Your happiness is his priority. He is willing to go the extra mile to make you laugh. Sometimes, his jokes are dry, but you can never blame a guy for trying! He is also trying to find out your sense of humor. If you keep laughing and he goes on with the jokes, you have already captured his heart.
4. He stands or sits near around you
Is he attracted to me if he keeps finding reasons to sit or stand near me? Only a guy who finds you desirable as a romantic partner would want to be around you all the time, even when it is not necessary. He cannot see to get enough of you; otherwise, if he finds you unattractive, he will create a barrier or cross his arms and display body language screaming "not interested!"
5. He makes time for you
If he tends to fit you into his busy schedule, it is one of the signs he is attracted to you. You mean a lot to him, and he finds you a breath of fresh air in his life. He will never cancel any plans you have made together. He will even find silly excuses to hang out with you.
6. He compliments you
He wants you to feel good about yourself. He will always notice what you are wearing or how differently your hair is done. He will praise you for the small feats you achieve, whether personal or professional. Sometimes, his complements border on flirting, and he will say nice things about you!
7. He wants to help you when in need
It is instinctive for a man to support the woman he adores. If he is attracted to you, he will want to help you as much as possible. Maybe he will offer you a ride to work if your car is out of service. An average guy cannot put his energy towards assisting a person unless she is very dear to him.
8. He shows his true self
He is comfortable around you. He never holds anything back when he is around you. He will even expose his goofy side to you. He loves you the way you are, and he also wants you to fall for him without changing or hiding anything.
9. His friends leave you two alone
If his friends find excuses to go when you show up, it is one of the signs he is secretly attracted to you. He has probably told them that he fancies you and wishes to spend as much time alone with you to know you better.
10. He touches you often
Not like a pervert! A guy who loves will find a reason to touch you. He can even lie that there is an eyelash stuck on your cheek, and he wants to help you get it off. He even grazes his knee accidentally on you and leaves it there.
11. He teases you a lot
No one teases anybody he/she is not comfortable to be around because it could be deemed inappropriate or harassment. He is trying to be playful with you because he wants to make you happy. Teasing someone is cute in a childish way. He is trying to make you giggle because people do it most of the time to their loved ones.
12. He dresses for you
You may realize that he will go the extra mile to dress well whenever you are meeting. If he is into you, he is going to put a lot of sweat into his appearance so that he can impress you. Who knows he might even join a gym to change his grooming habits, particularly if you have mentioned to him something you find admirable.
Should I Make a Move Ahead?
If you feel he is the guy of your dreams, do not hesitate to make your feelings known to him. It could be the much needed for him to profess his love for you. You can start by flirting with him and see how he reacts. If he realizes that you feel about him the way he does for you, he will definitely make a move to solidify your relationship… who knows, you might end up his girlfriend or wifey!