Challenge yourself sexually by making a sex bucket list. Besides the things you have already mentally written down on a list, you can add a lot more ranging from naughty to completely insane. It all depends on how experienced you are and how far you are willing to go.
Allow your mind to fantasize about the most daring sexual practices and open it to new suggestions that will enrich your most intimate experiences. We have a long list of ideas that you must try at least once in your life.
1. Experiment with new positions
Trying new positions isn't among the most adventurous things to do in bed. Even so, it's a great place to start if you haven't tried many things sexually. In fact, there are numerous positions that reveal your partner's body which will arouse you visually, not only physically. Also, penetration feels a lot different when it's done from various angles. Depending on what you choose to focus on, you could browse for deep penetration positions or even acrobatic ones. Keep in mind not to stretch your body without warming up first.
2. Choose a role to play
When you hide behind a character, things become less embarrassing, even when it comes to sex. You can be a different person with any traits you want. In addition, you can choose outfits fitted for your act. Dressing up is not only for women.
Most of us have common role-play fantasies such as teacher-student, cop-villain, doctor-patient, nun-priest, and so on. This doesn't mean that playing sister-brother is necessarily a crazy sex idea. If you do fantasize about it, take it as a harmless thought and explore it when you find the right partner.
3. Try new kinks and BDSM
There's something very appealing in both being in control and in fully letting go. Typically, people are either dominant or submissive. There are rare cases when someone identifies with both. So, how does the thought of being tied up and pleasured sound? Or, do you rather see yourself spanking your partner while he or she is blindfolded?
BDSM and its afferent kinks are about pushing your boundaries and finding out how each action makes you feel. As a dominant man, it would be especially exciting for you to treat your lover as a sex slave or immobilize him or her. Conversely, a woman in charge who asks for exactly what she wants is extremely sexy.
4. Have sex outdoors or publicly
In the intimacy of a bedroom, the only element of surprise is your partner's actions. That's why sex in public places should be on your sex bucket list. When you are outside, you never know if someone will show up and see you. It's the type of thrill that enhances your arousal. Fear is a great aphrodisiac.
For your safety, try less-circulated areas at first. You might uncover the fact that you like to be watched, which could lead to another entry on your list.
5. Use items from a sex shop
This is not a crazy sex idea, but it can become pretty wild. With or without a partner, you can try different sex toys. There are so many shapes, sizes and options out there, that it's really hard to recommend a certain one. A penis ring or a vibrator are nice things to start with.
If you are into bondage, you can try different cuffs and ropes. Even something as insignificant as a tingling lube can turn a plain sexual experience into a special one. Dildos, vibrators, plugs and nipple clamps are also among your options.
6. Try threesome
Sex is not only about pleasure, but also about experimentation. If having one-on-one sex is so pleasurable, how would it be with more? Just think about having four hands caressing your body, pleasuring you and kissing you at the same time. There are many new sensations waiting for you in a threesome or even a foursome. However, don't jump into a gang bang before you try having sex with more than one person.
7. Sleep with a stranger
If you disregard the danger of getting involved with a psychopath, you should try sleeping with a stranger. This kind of experience is liberating. Neither you or the stranger have any expectations. You are free to express yourself sexually in any way you want because this person doesn't know you or anything about you. There are no feelings involved, just plain, carnal desire. Make sure you ask for consent before doing anything crazy, though.
8. Identify and explore a fetish
Bondage, dominance, foot fetish, humiliation, impact play, nylons, pregnancy, voyeurism are all fetishes. If there isn't something that appeals to you in particular, we dare you to try them all. You never know what will make you tick.
40 Ideas to Add to Your Sex Bucket List
- Masturbate together with your partner.
- Synchronize your orgasm with your partner's orgasm.
- Try edging. Bring yourself close to orgasm and then stop. Repeat after you cool off.
- Enhance your other senses by wearing a blindfold.
- Give up control entirely.
- Try an erotic massage with or without body oil.
- Use your feet instead of your mouth or hands.
- Give anal stimulation a try with or without a partner.
- Rimming could bring a whole array of new sensations.
- Have sex in a car, a train, or even a plane.
- Watch a couple having sex. It's up to you whether you touch yourself or not.
- Take some whipped cream to the bedroom. If you love it, try ice cream or chocolate.
- Focus on a really long foreplay with toys at hand.
- Get it on throughout the house. Don't forget about the floor and pantry.
- Take a sexy shower and maybe try some watersports.
- Become a master at dirty talk.
- See how semen feels on every part of your body.
- Watch your sperm land on your partner's sexy body parts.
- Attend a sex party, preferably with someone you trust.
- Try an orgasm-controlling device in public places.
- Use a public restroom for sex.
- Play various sex games.
- Make a private sex tape and then masturbate while watching it.
- See what deepthroating is all about.
- Pegging could arouse a mistress's interest.
- Make love, not sex.
- Go for a sex marathon.
- Watch porn and imitate what the actors are doing.
- Wake up your partner with oral sex.
- Offer oral sex from under a desk.
- Express all your desires verbally.
- Swinging spices up the sex life of strong couples.
- Try having sex without actual penetration.
- Seduce someone who is much older or younger than you.
- Dare your partner not to touch themselves while watching porn together.
- Have sex on a balcony where neighbors can see you.
- Experiment with a person of the same sex.
- Try temperature play with ice or hot wax.
- Engage in intercourse while your partner is watching.
Summary
Even with all these new additions, your sex bucket list is far from being complete. However, you can choose a few to start with and explore even more when you feel ready. You'll notice that with every new experience, you'll become more confident sexually and learn a lot about what type of stimulation your body and mind need.