Sex life is an essential part of any romantic relationship. Passionate sex life will keep the romance alive. On the other hand, a tedious sex life might bore you and your partner. Whether you have a boyfriend or a husband, it's always a good idea to spice things up in the bedroom every once in a while.
Every man expects different things from their partner, so communication is key when you want to ignite the fire in your sex life. However, there are various tips that are guaranteed to drive him crazy and wanting for more. Read on to find out how to keep your man happy in bed.
Sexy Tricks to Keep Him Satisfied
Do you want to satisfy your man but don't know where to start? Pay attention to these simple yet foolproof sex tricks to do with your boyfriend or husband. Do them correctly and you're guaranteed to keep him coming back for more.
1. Moan to encourage him
Don't be afraid to be more vocal in bed. Of course, we're not suggesting you try fake pornstar-like moaning, but try to moan more to encourage him. Men love it when they know you're enjoying yourself. It makes them feel proud that they're able to pleasure you.
If you're not used to moaning, try letting out little "oohs" and "ahhs" here and there when you feel good. Try to relax and let yourself go when you're in his hands. You'll be surprised how little moans and gasps every now and again will excite him.
2. Tease him by sucking his fingers
If you think that kissing is only for the lips, then you are very wrong. Don't forget about his hands and fingers. This may seem weird at the beginning, but trust us, this sensual trick will drive him wild. Kissing and sucking his fingers is a great way to tease him and set the mood.
To begin with, kiss his hand and place the tip of your tongue at the base of his fingers. Then, slowly move up to the tip of his fingers and suck on one finger lightly. Don't forget to use your tongue and pretend as if you're giving him a mini blowjob. This move will give him goosebumps because this area is very sensitive.
3. Striptease your man
Men love to be teased. They think it's sexy when women leave something for the imagination. So, make your man happy by teasing him from time to time. You don't have to install a stripper pole in the middle of your bedroom, but just a little teasing every now and then will drive him crazy.
If you're not used to it, try it while you're all alone at home. Try several different sexy moves, such as flipping your hair and doing the slut drop. When he's home, surprise him by putting on a sultry make-up and your sexiest lingerie. Play some sexy music in the background to set the mood. Then, ask him to sit down and enjoy the show.
4. Sext him during the day
Ever try sexting? If you have never sext your man, then it's time to do so! When you sext him, your confidence will definitely turn him on. It will drive him crazy during the day and make him think about everything he'll do to you when he gets home. Just try to keep his schedule in mind and don't do this if he has an important meeting that day.
To set the mood, you need to be comfortable in your own skin. Try sending him a picture of you in a bra or if you're not confident enough yet, try a picture of you biting your lips. Send him some teasing texts and ask him what he'll do to you if he were with you.
5. Indulge his fantasies
Communication is essential to keeping your sex life exciting and enjoyable. Men usually have their own little fantasies that they keep to themselves. From mild BDSM to role-playing, he'll definitely have a fantasy he wants to try out. If you're feeling frisky, why not coax him to tell you what his sex fantasies are?
If he's shy about his fantasy, tell him that you won't judge him and will try to make it come true as best as you can. After getting the information out of him, discuss with him how you'd like to try it and what preparations you need to make. Afterward, it's showtime!
6. Try out a new sex position with him
Sometimes, something as simple as changing your positions can drive him wild. In some positions, you'll feel tighter, making sex more enjoyable for him. Plus, trying out new sex positions can break the routine and make sex more exciting and pleasurable for both of you.
Trying out new sex positions can definitely spice things up between you and your man. So, here is a list of sex moves that make a man happy. Try one of these with your man tonight and you will definitely make him fall in love with you all over again:
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Doggy style
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Reverse cowgirl
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Corkscrew
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Wheelbarrow
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Seated wheelbarrow
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The seashell
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Butter churner
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Golden arch
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The chairman
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The spider
Note that some of these positions might be a little more challenging. So, make sure to do your research and don't be afraid to experiment with your partner. If some positions aren't working for you, don't hesitate to laugh it out together with your partner and try something else.
7. Have sex in different places
Have you only been having sex in bed? If so, that may be where the problem lies. Having sex in bed is nice, of course, but it can get boring and tedious after a while. Men fantasize about having sex in different places. So, if you want to drive him crazy, try teasing him somewhere else in the house.
While routine sex in bed is always nice and enjoyable, having sex in new places can renew his excitement and maybe even yours as well! For example, if he's watching TV in the living room, straddle him and start making out with him right there on the couch. Or you can sneak up on him while he's in the shower and start having a steamy shower sex session.
Takeaway Message
We hope this article has helped you understand how to keep your man happy in bed. So, which sexy and kinky tricks will you be trying tonight? Better yet, will you try some of the sensual sex moves we suggested?
Either way, always remember that the key to having a happy and sensual sex life is communication. Ask him what he likes and what he wants from you and vice versa. We're sure you will be able to reignite the passion between you and your man. Good luck!